Naughty or Nice?



I’ve been mostly nice this year, though a fair amount of naughty was sprinkled about. If I’m honest, that’s probably how most years go. I’d like to do better, but I am what I am.


Because I believe and – in my heart – know, I won’t wait up for Santa tonight. I’ll just snuggle under the covers, grateful to have a warm bed and a roof over my head. I’ll probably count my blessings before drifting off. Knowing me, my belly will be full and I’ll wear a smile there in the darkness. I like to think those little parts of my personality put me on the Nice List. And that Santa sees it.


Let me be clear about something here: I believe in Santa Claus. Maybe not in the way a child believes, but I believe just the same. It took me many adult years to get here. As a kid, I was a Santa junkie, like all the other children I knew. Then, when I was only 6 or 7, my uncle Scottie told me the most horrible story imaginable: Santa was fake. He told me how our parents get all the presents, then hide them before putting them beneath the Christmas tree each year. He even took me up into the attic of his house, to show me where all his gifts were stashed. As uncle Scottie was a couple of years older than I, he was an authority. And I believed him. Kid Christmas would never be the same.


I was devastated, but I kept it to myself. I had 2 younger sisters and I didn’t want them to find out about Santa. I didn’t want them to feel the heartbreak I was enduring. By the time they no longer believed in Santa, years had passed.


I never told on Scottie for enlightening me about Santa Claus. And to this day, I don’t blame him. He was a kid himself. Like me, he didn’t know any better. We just wanted to grow up. We thought we had to put aside childish things in order to make that happen. We thought a concrete understanding of life would bring maturity. We had no idea what we’d lose in letting go of our magical beliefs.


I am mostly grown now. I watch the children of friends as they marvel at December’s promise. I hear strangers admonishing their children out in the world, “You’d better be good or Santa won’t come to our house!” And I smile at all of it. For I believe in Santa Claus, too. And I believe in Magic. I believe – period. As an adult, I have regained the beauty and possibility of a child’s faith. And if that’s not Magic, I don’t know what is.


I Believe…



I’m one of those people who believes in a Higher Power. I don’t claim to understand it, nor do I claim to own it. But I do believe that as I make my way in this world, I am loved.


The thing about making one’s way in life is that you don’t have a clue why certain people or experiences cross your path. Sure, hindsight often provides clarity. But not always. Late for work, though you busted your butt to get out the door early? Maybe you missed a major accident on your usual route at your usual time. Thought you’d meet the mate of your dreams at that spendy resort? Maybe it didn’t happen there because the real mate of your dreams lives right around the corner.


Anyhoo, I do believe in this stuff. And I try to live my life with those beliefs in mind. I don’t know why. I just do.


When I was a little kid, I watched “Peter Pan” on television. At that time (lo, those many years ago), the telecast of the Broadway version – starring Mary Martin – was aired again and again. I, like a lot of other kids, took that Tinker Bell stuff to heart. I believed, and I clapped as loudly as I could in hopes of saving Tinker Bell. Even though I knew what was going to happen, I just had to clap. I just had to believe.


I’m still clapping. Literally. I’m usually alone – at home or in my car. When I think of it, I’ll just start clapping like a crazy woman. Or maybe – just like a kid. For that was where my belief was born. And to this day, I believe. With all my heart.


I guess I don’t have a point to make or anything. And in all honesty, I’ve probably written about this before. I was just thinking about believing. About how good it feels. If you agree, clap loudly. Go ahead. It feels great, I promise…